It is my birthday, and inspired by Sophie Heawood’s recent Guardian article I wrote a list of 38 things I know now I am 38.
- No matter how much money you earn you will spend it.
- As a working mum, there will be times when work is brilliant, the kids are brilliant, your household is in hand and you feel like you have everything under control.
- As a working mum, there will be times when work is really hard and all-consuming, the kids are whiny and hard to manage, your household is a disaster zone and you feel like nothing is under control.
- If you can get out of the house in the morning feeling vaguely on top of things, that feeling will help carry you through the day.
- A pain au chocolat can help.
- Chopping vegetables is a very cheap form of therapy.
- Sometimes I want to ring up the controller of CBeebies just to say THANK YOU.
- Friends come and go depending on the stage of life you are at; don’t beat yourself up if you can’t keep up with everybody.
- 6 year-olds can be really wise. They are worth listening to.
- A glass of Champagne with some smoked salmon is always a winner in my book.
- Sometimes, when you’re a bit pissed, certain things seem like SUCH A GOOD IDEA. They rarely are.
- Robert Dyas is a treasure trove for keen cooks.
- If you are boiling eggs and one of the shells cracks, add a couple of drops of vinegar to prevent more white escaping into the pan *takes a bow*
- Write down the names of books you’ve read as you finish them. Otherwise, you’ll forget what you’ve read.
- Don’t underestimate the importance of time on your own. Get it when you can.
- Never give a 3-year-old a bottle of squeezy honey to add to her toast herself.
- Checking Twitter every 5 minutes will not bring you more followers.
- Boots points are great, however Nectar point are a bit of a waste of time.
- The things that bring me joy are often the simplest things.
- Buying more stuff doesn’t actually make you happy.
- You can never take too many snacks on an outing with kids.
- When people you love die, don’t be afraid to grieve, and don’t be afraid to talk about them.
- A good moisturiser can’t solve everything but it can help.
- Starting writing a blog is one of the best things I’ve ever done.
- When dithering over whether to do something or not, think to yourself what would [insert name of coolest person you know] do? And do that.
- There is no such thing as too many cookbooks.
- Sleep begets sleep in my experience: don’t be afraid to let your baby or toddler nap.
- Husbands matter; move them up the list a bit.
- If watching the news makes you upset, don’t watch it any more.
- The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver is one hell of a book.
- You can’t do everything perfectly; prioritise one thing and do it well. Then work down the list.
- The older you get, the more important make-up becomes.
- Carry a list of the best karaoke songs to sing on your iPhone – you never know when you’ll need it.
- As a working mum you will carry an extra bit of baggage with you at all times – beyond the Blackberry, the laptop and your Oyster card – it’s called guilt. Acknowledging it helps.
- If you can get on with your own family, you can get on with anyone.
- If in doubt, get them John Lewis vouchers.
- Being a mum is bloody hard work but 100% worth it.
- Never rule anything out!
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TOHC
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